John and Linda Fordyce

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We are so blessed to have a great family and so many, many good, loving friends who are concerned and praying for Linda when she needs it. Thank you!

Monday, November 17, 2008

Some days are tougher than others

Sunday was a pretty rough day. It may not be pleasant for you to read about this, but just try to imagine how unpleasant it has been for my mother. She has been confined to a bed for more than five and a half weeks, with barely any movement, and her digestive system is not functioning normally. We have reason to believe that the various medications interfere with normal bodily functions as well. She was absolutely miserable yesterday, since before sunrise until late in the evening, with urgency coming on but just never being able to feel like she was finished, and suffering severe abdominal cramping. She was also having that fear of the unknown wall of pain that I recall having when I was in labor with my first child.

Finally, by this morning, she was feeling a lot better and rested well for much of the day. She was even able to sit up in bed to exercise her arms and legs a bit with the physical therapists today. I pray that she may have more good days ahead of her, but some days truly feel like a setback to her. May she rest well tonight, please, God.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Dear Ones,
This is a common problem that you described. The meds may be contributing, but the underlying cause is her long immobility.

A gentle stool softener like Ducalax or flax seed oil helps. Nothing harse! Also drinking warm water, hot tea or hot coffee can help if the tea or coffee doesn't upset Linda's tummy.

Sitting up in bed will help. This problem is caused by the whole digestive system being horizontal too long. It needs gravity and body movement to work properly!

Part of the equation can also be loss of stomach muscle tone, the squeezing, which is what moves food through the stomach and through the intestines.

Suggestions from PT to help her with this should be requested and added to her PT routine.

As Linda gets more active and able to stand, walk and tolerate more PT, her body should resolve this painful condition on its own.

There is light at the end the tunnel!

Love,
Linda
Cave Junction, Oregon